Well I gave them a few more good whacks and they still wouldn't come out so I busted out the propane and heated the tube a few seconds till they were warm to the touch, reached back for the hardest yank I could(which now from the help of the torch was not needed), and pulled way too hard. The lower tube flew out with no resistance at all and before I could stop my hand, smashed a halfdollar sized hole in the front fender of my 1000rr.
So I learned heat can help, but fork seal hammering should not be performed in a cramped, full garage lol. Ive wanted a carbon one for a while anyway hehe
Thanks again mrw, for the fork help, and maybe some help convincing the ol' lady I really do need that carbon fender afterall haha
Also once I got them apart, there was teflon material from the bushings everywhere...could that be what caused my seals to leak or was that just from me hammerin?